Sunday, October 28, 2012

How to talk to Kids about Bipolar.

Hi everyone,

Well, I have been debating about this post the last few Days.

I would write this post and delete it, write it and delete it, I don't know how many times.

How to talk to the kids about Bipolar is the hardest thing for us to work out how to tackle.

My kids are ages 4 years and 3 years and I chose early on that I would not make a big ideal of my illness, I wouldn't hide it, I would be open and honest about it even to the kids. 

We took the approach of telling the kids when they asked questions. 

My Kids have seen me daily taking medication and asked why? which we answered that mummy's head is "silly" and so I take tablets to help it work better.

My 4 year old has recently asked why is my head silly? so I sat and explained that my brain(he knows a little about the brain) makes me feel very sad or very happy. So sometimes Mummy sleeps a lot or feels sad for no reason or really hyper like you when you eat too much sugary treats!

I talked to them about why I have to eat a special way (Paleo.) to help me get better or How I have to go for a walk every second day to help me feel better.

That is enough for them at the moment.

I have recently found an amazing book that helps kids to understand their parents illness. 

The Bipolar Bear Family: When a Parent Has Bipolar Disorder

Which I have added to the book store..my new Page!

How have you told others in your life about bipolar? Leave your answer in the comment section below!

Well, This is all I have time for...

Lil miss 3 year old is sick so I'm off to the doctor :(

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The blue Rose

#bipolar, #family, #mental illness, #understanding, #stigma,







Friday, October 26, 2012

nervous depression


This is one of those times I need to get out the house. I'm anxious restless nervous on edge and yet the black cloud hangs above my head.

I know home is not a good place to be dont get me wrong my family is everything but I know my temper will be sharper and ill be easily angered. So out I go with a close mate we will walk the city cause exercise helps.

I have to look after my babies alone tomorrow as hubby works so I need to break this before then.

So I need to go out. To clear this mood fast.

So there it is.
The blue rose

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Stephen fry and the grasp of the creative

Hi everyone,

Well I have been stuck by two rather opposing moods.

One that I am alone in this madding world of ups and downs and the other to creatively write.

When I feel alone or for that matter when People ask how to understand Bipolar I tell them two things with out fail.

One watch Stephen Fry's Documentary
http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/stephen-fry-the-secret-life-of-the-manic-depressive/
(please buy a copy its it truly worth every cent.)

And two. Listen and respect what I say.

My father has bipolar but we experience it differently. Yet sometimes it's hard for people to see us separately  It is also hard for people to respect boundaries due to they desire to " help".

Calling me daily to see if I am up, functioning and what mood I am in is not helpful. I might make you feel better but you are not helping me for example.

Same for all Bipolar people. Respect we are still people not just the illness.

As for the second mood the writing bug as again bitten. It is times like these if I can't write I get anxious aggravated and just not nice to live with.
Add to this when I am writing my dyslexia riles me when I can't think to spell a word I am after it's not pretty.

If I could I'd lock myself away for days and type away till the mood passes but I have two lil ones and a hubby that like my presence and help.

So the juggling act beings.

So Go watch(buy.) Stephen's amazingly candid documentary and I shall write as the mood takes me.

I hope to be back looking into ways to help naturally with bipolar soon.

The blue rose.

#Stephen Fry, #bipolar mum, #Bipolar, #mania, #manic, #depression, #writing, #documentry

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Sleep too much too little just right?

Hi everyone
well I still having drama with Sleep.

So I thought we might all learn from what I have found.

These are all quotes that I have been reading...

“We are living in the middle of history’s greatest experiment in sleep deprivation and we are all part of that experiment,” says Robert Stickgold, PhD, a sleep research specialist and associate professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Stickgold makes this dramatic assertion in a recent Harvard Magazine article that also cites some startling statistics. 

Americans today sleep far less than people did 100 or even 50 years ago. 
http://www.bphope.com/Item.aspx/159/the-quest-for-sleep

We are all sleep deprived but for bipolar people its worse due to the Circadian Rhythmic nature of bipolar.

So what is a Circadian Rhythm.

in a strict sense, circadian rhythms are endogenously generated, although they can be modulated by external cues such as sunlight and temperature.

Circadian rhythms are important in determining the sleeping and feeding patterns of all animals, including human beings.

So why is this important for bipolar? especially those of us with rapid cycling bipolar?
As difficult as getting a good night’s sleep is for most people, those who have bipolar disorder know all too well the significant health costs of poor sleep. “Most people who don’t have bipolar disorder have a consistent sleep problem over a long period of time. In people who have bipolar disorder, sleep problems often occur cyclically,” explains Michael J. Thorpy, MD, director of the Sleep-Wake Disorder Center at Montefiore Medical Center in Bronx, New York. “They may fluctuate week to week or month to month. So in the manic or hypomanic phases, they get very little sleep but at times of depression, they may sleep or just stay in bed for excessive amounts of time.” 

Bipolar disorder, commonly known as manic-depressive disorder, is highly influenced by the circadian system - thebody's internal clock - and a specific kind of psychotherapy may help decrease irregularities in the circadian system that can trigger key symptoms of bipolar disorder, according to a study presented today at the American College of Neuropsychopharmacology (ACNP) annual meeting. 

"Having already found that disruption in daily routines can make individuals with bipolar disorder vulnerable to new episodes of illness, we have now learned that working with patients to achieve and maintain regular social rhythms - including regular sleep patterns and adequate physical activity - will help to protect them against episodes of mania or depression," says Ellen Frank, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and professor of psychiatry and psychology at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine.


Each body organ — from kidneys to muscles — has a gene that puts it on an internal 24-hour clock. These are called circadian genes, and the sleep-wake patterns, or rhythms, they produce are known as endogenous rhythms because they are produced within the body. However, as Frank explains, the sleep-wake cycle is also influenced by exogenous rhythms outside the body — such as the rising and setting of the sun, or mealtimes. "For instance," Frank says, "if my plane lands in Italy at seven a.m. and my gut's still on Pittsburgh time, where it's the middle of the night, I won't want to eat. But once I see sunshine, smell food cooking, and put something in my stomach, my organs will wake up: 'Hello! Something different is going on here.'" In people with bipolar disorder, both exogenous and endogenous rhythms are much more sensitive than in people without this condition, says Frank, which makes them prone to sleep disturbances.


Track your daily patterns. Filling out a daily form called a "Social Rhythm Metric" can help identify your daily sleep-wake patterns as well as other regular activities, and also track how your mood corresponds to each. "It takes two minutes a day. You record when you got up, when you first had contact with another person, when you started work or school, when you had dinner, and when you went to bed," says Frank. By using the form over several weeks or months, you can figure out which bedtimes and wake times correspond to your best mood state.
Look out for zeitstorers! The German words "zeitgeber" (time-giver) and "zeitstorer" (time-taker) are used by researchers to describe different cues in your environment that can affect your schedule. A zeitgeber, says Frank, is an event or person that helps you maintain your routine — for example, a cat that should be let out at a given time or a spouse who must catch the same train daily. A zeitstorer, conversely, disturbs your routine, the way a business trip or overnight guests might. Figuring out how to maximize the use of zeitgebers and minimize the effect of zeitstorers will ultimately help improve your sleep and mental health.
Try IPSRT. Interpersonal and social rhythm therapy (IPSRT), developed by Frank and colleagues about 20 years ago, helps you understand the importance of regularity in your daily routines, especially how a consistent sleep/wake cycle can stabilize your mood and help to prevent new episodes of illness. "You learn to anticipate changes in routine, such as a vacation or a time when your spouse will be away, and how to maintain — as closely as possible — your usual sleep patterns in spite of these changes. You also learn how to carefully adhere to your usual medication regimen," says Frank.
Accept the situation and work with it. "This problem isn't going away," says Frank. Just because your spouse can choose to go to bed at eight p.m. one night and one a.m. the next and suffer no ill effects, you can't. You must make your sleep routine a priority of the household.
Like a Finely Tuned Watch
Frank sympathizes with how difficult it can be for people with bipolar disorder to regulate their sleep and other activity routines. "But I like to use an old TV commercial for Timex watches as an analogy," Frank says. "A Timex was thrown off the top of the Empire State Building, and when it hit the ground, it was still ticking. Well, you wouldn't get the same result if you threw a Piaget watch off the top of that building. It's an exquisitely sensitive instrument. And that's what we tell our patients: You aren't a Timex. You're a Piaget."
Certain bipolar medications may also affect sleep as a side effect. For example, they may disrupt the sleep-wake cycle. One way to address this is to move bedtime and waking time later and later each day until you reach your desired goal. Two other ways to handle this situation are bright light therapy and use of the hormone melatonin.
Of course, your doctor may recommend a change in medication, if needed. Be sure to discuss any other drugs or medical conditions that may be affecting your sleep, such as arthritis, migraines, or a back injury.
Restoring a regular schedule of daily activities and sleep -- perhaps with the help of cognitive behavioral therapy -- can go a long way toward helping restore more even moods.
Steps like these may also help restore sleep:
  • Eliminate alcohol and caffeine late in the day.
  • Keep the bedroom as dark and quiet as possible and maintain a temperature that is not too hot or cold. Use fans, heaters, blinds, earplugs, or sleep masks, as needed.
  • Talk with your partner about ways to minimize snoring or other sleep habits that may be affecting your sleep.
  • Exercise, but not too late in the day.
  • Try visualization and other relaxation techniques.
Most people know that they need to eat well and exercise to be healthy and fit, but ignorance about sleep is widespread.

Dr. Thorpy, of the Sleep-Wake Disorder Center at Montefiore Medical Center, encourages consumers who have bipolar to exercise enough for optimal sleep. “It’s vital to keep active even during a depressive phase,” he says. “But be careful not to exercise strenuously too close to the sleep episode” because doing so can be too stimulating. “Get exposure to bright light during the day,” he adds. “Don’t just exercise inside a dark environment. Get outside.” 


I know its a lot of quotes but with my mind how it is this is the best I can put forward...
I'll come back and organise this post better when my frame of mind is up to the task.

As for this I think I need to work on a routine of better sleep.

Don't forget to follow or comment below.

The blue rose.



#sleep #bipolar #circadian rhythm #insomnia #help

Monday, October 22, 2012

Food to help when you are manic...rapid cycling days

Hi everyone,
I'm back for another post.

The "fun" of being a type 2 rapid cycling bipolar is you never know how long a depressive state will hang around or when the manic will rock up. after lunch my mood swung.

I went from pull myself up of the bed taking hours to millions of thoughts and the energy spike of the charts in a day. ergh.... and I'm still wired so i hope to clean my house tomorrow... let see how long it lasts.

But that being said I need to try to level out even a little so I don't spin out of control like the Tassie devil.

So Here I am back on Google find something to help that i can easier keep on hand.

Here is what i found...

Berries
Green, Leafy Veggies
Fish
Dairy Products
Apples, Oranges & Bananas
Herbal Tea
Dark Chocolate
Foods to Avoid
Berries such as blueberries, raspberries, and strawberries all contain natural antioxidants and vitamin C. Combined, they all prevent a jump in cortisol, a steroid hormone in the body produced by the adrenal gland.These great little snacks can help if you’re already feeling wound up.
Green vegetables are chock full of all sorts of good stuff, namely thiamin, folate, and other B vitamins, natural stress busters that can help calm your mind during mania. If your mania is getting out of hand, stock up on a salad full of leafy spinach, asparagus, broccoli, and other goods.
When stress and mania hit, you could use some omega-3 fatty acids. These powerful enzymes do all sorts of good for your body, including aiding the neurotransmitters in your brain so it can communicate with itself peacefully. Salmon is a great source of omega-3s, along with tuna, mackerel, herring, trout, halibut, and sardines. 
Milk, and dairy-based foods like cheese and yogurt, contain a good amount of riboflavin, a handy B vitamin that can help settle you down. Dairy also contains whey protein, which has been found to boost tryptophan, an important component in your brain’s feel-good chemistry.
These three fruits do all sorts of wonders for your body. They include the cleansing fiber, muscle-relaxing potassium, and powerful levels of vitamin C. Even the slow process of peeling an orange can force you to slow down for a few minutes, which may be just as effective as the citrus fruit itself. 
There are lots of calming teas on the market that can help settle your worried, anxious, or wild mind. Chamomile tea is a popular choice, especially if you’re having trouble sleeping at night. In addition, adding a splash of milk to tea can aid in its calming effects. 
Chocolate is a great comfort food. But instead of chomping away at a bar of milk chocolate, go for the purest dark chocolate you can find. Just like berries, dark chocolate can lower levels of cortisol, as well as the harmful norephinephrine and epinephrine that can make a person feel nervous and anxious. It also ups the calming chemicals in the brain to make you feel better.
When you’re feeling a bit wired, avoid foods containing caffeine, alcohol, sugars, and processed ingredients. These can all contribute to a rise in stress hormones that can take your mania to places you’d rather not go. Stick with natural, fresh ingredients when you can and you’ll be feeling better overall.
Another thing i have found is that Tai chi (which I love) helps to calm focus and increase oxygen intake. 
Aim of Tai Chi is to foster a calm and tranquil mind, focused on the precise execution of these exercises. Learning to do them correctly provides a practical avenue for learning about such things as balance, alignment, fine-scale motor control, rhythm of movement, the genesis of movement from the body's vital center, and so on. Thus the practice of Tai Chi can in some measure contribute to being able to better stand, walk, move, run, etc. in other spheres of life as well. Many practitioners notice benefits in terms of correcting poor postural, alignment or movement patterns which can contribute to tension or injury. Furthermore the meditative nature of the exercises is calming and relaxing in and of itself.
I find that the last statement about it having a calming effect true for me and have been trying to remember to add tai chi into my daily routine.

Well I'm off to hopefully sleep. If not my house might be cleaner by morning.
The blue rose.



#bipolar, #foodmood, #manic #taichi #high



Fight depression a full time job.

Some thing I have realised during this is that fighting off the worst of depression is a full time job.

I have to fight to keep my paleo diet going with everything in my brain craving everything bad. Sugar, Gluten, Potatoes!!

Also making sure I exercise is getting harder and harder. As ALL I want is to hibernate.

So why am I telling you this, well, I don't want anyone to feel lone.

I'm not prefect or anything there are dishes in the sink and clothes needing washing. I'm not on top of it all.

This blog when I first started was to first be honest.

So this is me doing just that. DEPRESSION SUX! I HATE IT!

Don't think that's it for the information.... certainly not.

I have been trying to get my brain in gear to understand a few new research papers but its not playing nice.

The nut shell is that our body clock is light reactive. We have a sensor in our eye that helps regulate the body by the amount of light we get.

The cool thing is a guy had this bipolar brought under control with long hours of pure dark 6 am till 8am pure dark! It's called DARK THERAPY.

And His rapid cycle bipolar 1 levelled out! no drugs! NO DRUGS!!

for those interested http://www.chronobiology.ch/publications/1999_03.pdf

I hope to post more about this as I find and understand it.

Well I'm off to bed.

Remember there is always hope!!


Friday, October 19, 2012

Just a day in the life

Hi everyone,
Today isn't an information packed post for two reasons. 

1. I feel so tired.
2. I have so much to do!

I hate days like this. I just want to sleep, I feel like I have just woken up or haven't slept but I have been awake and doing things for hours. For me, this is how depression episodes start.

I have felt this building for the last few days and I have tried to hold it off with food exercise meditation but alas here I am.

My Orthomolecular therapy starts next week which is great. 

Yet, for now, I have to deal with this. So It's a case for most important gets the energy.

 So I'm going to plod along, go for a walk,do the shopping, get bed stuff ready for my kids and be ready to go out tonight with my friends while I ignore the go to sleep lullaby my brain is playing. Then ignore it again tomorrow while I look after my lil ones all day, then walk with my walking partner and ignore it some more.

I just repeat stick to the routine stick to the routine till it passes.

Just another Day in the life of type 2 bipolar.

See you all tomorrow.



Bipolar and the Heart

Hi everyone,
So I'm back with some more information,

Recently, I have been finding more and more statements relating Bipolar and Cardiovascular disease.( also called heart disease.)

In studies that specifically assess cardiovascular mortality, bipolar disorder has been associated with a near doubling of risk when compared to general population estimates. (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3190964/)



With my father recently having a mild heart attack and also being bipolar these findings shocked me. If doctors know we have a higher risk why haven't I been told? Am I at risk? Should I get my heart checked?


Well, For a start I wasn't told because the research seems to be inconclusive as to why.

Is it due to diet? Is it due to a higher likely hood of engaging in bad behaviours such as smoking, drugs, alcohol? or its it something else?

The fact is they don't know.

Don't panic. You can do something out it. 

1. Give up or reduce the bad stuff. say good bye to tobacco, alcohol and caffeine as these all put stress on the cardio vascular system. (I don't smoke or drink but caffeine is my weakness...so Its got to go.)

2. 30mins of exercise .... get out and get the blood pumping. It will help strength and tone the heart!

3. Eat smart. Healthy eating even when manic or depressed can be very hard but by limiting the bad foods in the house, you are less likely to pig out when in those moods. Also train your thinking don't say I can't have that tell ourself I can have that but I don't want it. I have found this simple trick has helped me alot! (tip from the documentary hungry for change.)

4.  Get to a healthy weight for you. healthy eating and exercise will help maintain or get you to your goal weight. see your doctor to work out the right weight for your body :)

5. Have a regular check up. That's right Go ask your Doctor to check the ticker. (Something I will be booking asap.)
(adapted from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/heart-disease-prevention/WO00041/NSECTIONGROUP=2)


Prevention is better then cure.  

So what do you need to change? Answer in the comment section :)

Eat healthy be active and get a check up :)

Don't forget to follow me or comment on this topic or any other you are interested in.

#bipolar #heart #manicdepressive #mentalhealth






Wednesday, October 17, 2012

food for mood

So To continue from my last post.

Natural mood stabilising seems to be working better then the drugs so off to Google I went again as soon as I noticed the black wave starting to roll my way(aka depression.)

So we All know you are what you eat but did you know how much what you eat can change your mood?

I found a great post on Foods for depression on www.cbc.ca on mood foods.

FEELING DEPRESSED?


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Eat more:  Happy mood-boosting foods!



1.    Bluegreen Algae  (E3 Live) 
E3Live is a fresh water algae that is one of that highest natural sources of phenylethylamine. Phenylethylamine is as a natural mood elevator and anti-depressant.  It's the same compound found in chocolate that perks-up our 'feel good' chemical.s However, bluegreen algae has about 50X more PEA than chocolate! It's also commonly known as the 'love molecule' as it stimulates mood, feelings of overall well-being, and has been described to simulate the same euphoric feeling and feel-good chemical that the body naturally produces during those beginning stages of 'falling in love'. A shot of this is like being bit by the 'happy love bug'.  In addition, this also helps to improve attention, concentration, memory, and he stabilization of mood swings.  Bluegreen Algae is also an excellent source of EPA and DHA (omega 3 Derivatives) that act as an anti-depressant



2.  Cold water fish(wild Salmon) and/or fish oil 
Cold water oily fish are an excellent source of EPA and DHA.  EPA and DHA are omega 3 derivatives that are found naturally in oily fish.  Research proves that fish oils that have a higher ratio of EPA:DHA is significant in effectively treating and reversing the effects of depression.  



3.  Saffron 
Research shows that saffron works just as effectively as prozac in treating mild to moderate depression - without the side effects! Crocin and safranal the two chemical compounds found in saffron that is reported to relieve depression by raising serotonin and other mood enhancing chemicals in the brain.

Another great source of info is Mark's daily apple.

with great tips like ...
4. Avoid the stimulant cycle.
Caffeine, sugar, alcohol. Caffeine, sugar, alcohol. Many of us get trapped in the stimulant cycle. These substances temporarily give you a lift, but actually deplete and blunt valuable hormones in the long run. If you like caffeine, try to limit your java intake to one or two cups a day at the most. The same for alcohol. I recommend avoiding sugar completely.
3. Sleep right.
When we’re feeling down, it’s tempting to sleep, sleep and sleep some more. But quality sleep is far more important than quantity. Force yourself to get up early, but allow for a rejuvenating nap midday if you need it (just don’t exceed one hour). The same goes for stressed-out workaholics getting by on 5 or 6 hours of sleep a night. Find a way to get an extra hour (hey, that sounds like another Tuesday 10 to me!)


And of course I can't leave out exercise!
10 minutes of walking ups the endorphins(feel good hormone) in the brain as well as all these benefits!!


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If you have questions or want me to look into a topic please comment below.
All information on this site is personal please talk to a doctor or health provider about your situation and please NEVER stop taking your meds with out talking to a professional.

The blue rose
#bipolar #paleo #food #exercise

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

paleo ortho-molecular treatment

ok the title of the post is weird I know.

But its simple really I'm trying to give my body what it needs to right its self.

For me that's in part the paleo lifestyle. no gluten so no wheat, bread ect.... no milk this one for me is harder ....no legumes the easiest by far and no sugars or processed foods....what you can eat is things like lean meats veggies fish fruit nuts good oils like coconut olive and avocado.

I could do a whole post on paleo...

What I really want to talk about is this thing I stumbled on to called orthomolecular medicine. the basic idea is to treat a chemical imbalance in the brain with what the brain has to work with naturally so instead of anti psychotic synthetic drugs they use things like omega 3 fatty acids b3 also called niacin, vitamin c and so on.

I have watch documentaries like feed your head which includes appearances by Dr Hoffer, Margot Kidder(a bipolar patient without an episode for 11 years!!) and also masks of madness.

What I found almost floored me.

My medication isn't working and I was looking to heal not be sick and surviving but I wanted to HEAL.
Two doctors Called Linus Pauling and Abram Hoffer had been healing people with their idea of letting the body heal itself by giving the body what it was lacking. Restoring balance.

Why was i never told this was an option? Was it cause there is no money to be made giving me this treatment? Or is it cause most think vitamins and minerals our body needs are dangerous i dont know.

If you find this page and have questions please ask in the comments and Ill answer as best i can.

I start this treatment soon and Ill post how it effects me side effects and any other information I can.

let me know your thoughts below.

the blue rose.

#bipolar #orthomolecular #food #hope #mentalillness #schizophrenia #paleo

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Im alive!!!

Hi I know I know Iknow where di I go?

Moving house BAD BAD BAD BAD black waves and no way to get a medical review for 6 months!!! darn you bipolar type 2 rapid!!!!

So I have been looking off the beaten track for some hope....

here is what i found the Paleo diet this has helped alot!! no gluten, no dairy (still working on..) no potatos and no legume  eat lean meats eat veggies esp green ones eat some fruit n nuts and exercise(run walk cycle ect...)

the next thing is trying to get my sleep pattern under control (with two small kids) this si hard believe me,....

the next thing we are trying is something called Orthomolecular medicine.

Its an alternative medicine idea that the body needs more essential vitamins and minerals to heal so things like leaky gut(aka the gut lining is thinned and not got enough good bacteria to function so is letting things into the blood that shouldnt be there making you sick.) and even they claim bipolar can be healed.

I think anything to help is worth a shot. so Im going to try it. Ill let you know how this all works out for me.

I got to go make dinner now
so ttfn.